Is it possible to love forever

My land, your land; my animals, your animals. Property was kept in the family by way of inheritance, so it was important for a farmer to be sure that the children he was raising were his.

As a result, women were prevented from having sex with other men through shaming, punishment, exile and other such means. The most effective method of enforcing sexual monogamy was marriage, which often gave the husband extensive rights he could use to keep a woman in check.

Because of this strict control of female sexuality, a belief started to develop that women have a lower sexual drive than men. This claim has been proven false through extensive research, but it is true that women try to hide their sexual desires, in an effort to conform to social expectations and moral norms.

The human penis for instance is the biggest in the animal kingdom relative to the size of our bodies. Its size and shape, together with the thrusting motion during sex, is designed to effectively pump out the sperm of other men, thus increasing ones own chances of impregnating the woman. This is a frequent behavior in polygamous animals, but not in monogamous ones. Animals that mate for life, such as gibbons, tend to have similar or identical physical dimensions.

Women have also evolved their own traits. Have you ever wondered why some of them are loud enough during sex that they can be heard from afar? It happens gradually and slowly: You'll usually start to feel it one or two years after the previous phase.

Your feelings will just continue to grow deeper over the years. The result is a happier, stronger and longer lasting relationship.

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For an optimal experience visit our site on another browser. Share this —. Follow today. Acknowledging the fact that there's something off allows you to openly communicate your feelings so you can work together as a couple to turn it around. Couples who manage to stay deeply in love know that the grass isn't always greener. They're happy with the ones they have and actively work together to remember why they chose each other in the first place.

They're appreciative of their partner and show it. But, this too shall pass. Over time it's very easy to fall into a comfortable routine with your partner.

But as we all know, that can lead to stagnation. That's why Stella Harris , certified intimacy educator and author of Tongue Tied, tells Bustle that couples who stay deeply in love know when it's time to get spontaneous.

Couples that stay deeply in love know when to spend time apart. Relationships don't always have to be super serious. They tell jokes, tease each other, and get the inside scoop on each others lives. They like staying "in the know" and connected. Couples who manage to stay deeply in love keep working on the relationship especially when things are going well, psychotherapist and relationship expert, Laura F. Dabney, MD , tells Bustle.